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ARE YOU IN LOVE?



For a person to be sure if he/she is in love or not, he/she most go through certain stages of love which will be enumerated below.It happens often that  you are in a state of dilemma if what you feel for your opposite sex is love or just mere infatuation.

There is nothing called love at first sight, don't be deceived, love doesn't come suddenly,it develops,it takes time and processes.A person who  surprisingly tells you "i love you" may not mean it. In the 21st century, the word "love" has lost its efficacy and it is perhaps the most misused word in the English lexicon, but the best is to say "i love you" when you really mean it. The following are the stages of love.

 FASCINATION

This is the stage where one feel attracted to the other person right from the moment their path crosses. This is referred to by layman as " love at first glance". At this stage,one gets the feeling of familiarity as though you both have met before, somewhere, you feel connected with the person.This is atrraction not love. Attraction is the first stage of love, you can't claim to be in love in this level because being fascinated to someone may not lead to love.


AFFECTION
The moment you care a lot about another person more than you do yourself is a sign you are falling in love. For instance, when he/she falls ill, it becomes hard for you to concentrate anymore, if he/she is not happy, you feel upset yourself. That zeal of wanting to be the first  to know if anything happens to him/her pionts towards affection. putting someone's need before yours is an act of love.

OBSESSION
This stage of love proves that you are deeply/crazily in love. This time, all your thought is of the person, everything you see, do or think is always relating to him/her, day dreaming about him/her, love sick(probably he or she is on a trip) . No single moment without the thought of the person is called obsession. Reaching this level its certain that its true love, when you missed the person you just saw few minutes ago so much like he/she has left you for years, whenever you are with them, you never wish to leave their side and at the moment of separation you feel incomplete and lonely, you are obsessed with the fellow.


LOVE
At this point, he/she is the most valuable and precious thing that ever happened to you, no one is the best except him/her, you are ready to lose everything just to hold on to that hand. Someone you can sacrifice and live for, the perfect person in the world for you is him/her, he /she has become something you can't let go.Having all this emotion towards one another is true love, no confusion about it.Your ears will be completely deaf to any form of advice against your desires.

Finally, love goes through a long process, it's not an instant feeling that hits you like a bomb.I am convinced you can now tell if what you feel for that girl or guy is real love not infatuations.

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